Saturday, January 25, 2014

Happy Holi-daze Island Style!





The four of us are all back together again, for the first time in a long time. Thinking back, it was probably last year around Christmas time that we were all in the same place at the same time – almost a full year! Unthinkable not so long ago, but that’s the reality now. And, while we don’t want to think about that just now, it won’t be for very long, so we had best enjoy ourselves while we can!

First things, first - back from the chillier climes we'd experienced the previous week (I had to wear long sleeve t-shirts, and *GASP* socks!), it was time to get comfortable again. As you can see, Jason wasted no time getting his island on, although truth be told, he'd dress that way in a snowstorm if he thought he could get away with it!

Here he is, "chillin'" with his best friend...


There were some folks visiting the island that put out an SOS on the VIOL STJ travel forum stating that they had missed packing the charger for their underwater camera, and asking where they might be able to buy one on island. It didn’t look like they’d be able to, but Leslie happened to have an extra one that she said they could borrow, and they invited us to have dinner at their villa when we dropped it off, so that’s what we did on our first night back.

We really enjoyed meeting Lisa and Michael, their daughter Katie and son-in-law Mike, and Lisa’s parents, Joyce and Wally. Katie and Mike were on their delayed honeymoon and decided to make it a three generation affair! They grilled steaks and we spent several fun hours swapping stories until the travel day finally took its toll and we had to head home!

Wednesday morning came much too early – especially for Leslie, Shane, and myself, who all had to work. Leslie was doing her local regular babysitting gig, Shane was at the Westin working for Cruz Bay Watersports, and I was on the computer working on schedules for an upcoming soccer tournament in Florida. Unfortunately, my work day lasted a little longer than we had hoped for, so I was unable to join the rest of the gang when they went in to town for the Animal Care Center’s open house event.

Thursday we joined our new friends at Salt Pond Bay, on the other side of the island. They got there before we did, and had secured one of the prime spots at a picnic table at the far end of the beach. While Leslie, Katie, and Mike snorkeled, Shane and I took Lisa on the hike to Ram Head, the southernmost point on the island. When we returned everyone had lunch, then Michael and I “guarded our stuff”, while the others took the trail over to Drunk Bay. There was a big group snorkel after that, and then we all packed up our stuff and headed to the Tourist Trap for happy hour drinks, appetizers, and conversation.

The week was flying by! On Friday Jason and I snorkeled in Klein Bay during the day while everyone else was at work. Saturday came and – you guessed it – we were back in the water again, this time out on the east end, at Hansen/Long Bay/Pelican Rock.


Sunday is the day when a lot of locals, as well as visitors, play beach volleyball (one of Jason’s favorite leisure time pursuits) at Cinnamon Bay. The three of us headed there and while he joined in the games Leslie and I braved the sandblasting winds and chilly (?) water. We had our snorkel gear with us, but never took it out of the bag the whole time we were there. After Leslie and I had all of the sun, wind, and rain that we could stand we let Jason know that we were leaving. We offered to let him stay longer but he said that he’d go tell the others goodbye and thank them for including him. He was back right away to let us know that he’d been offered a ride home and that he had decided to stay and play some more after all!


I was grilling pork tenderloin for dinner that night, one of Jason’s favorite meals, so I was starting to get concerned when darkness was approaching and he wasn’t back. Our neighbor said that he was probably hanging out with the others at a local watering hole enjoying post play libations, and that someone would almost certainly bring him home once they were done. Sure enough, we heard a car stop at the top of the driveway, some voices exchanging pleasantries, and there he came down the hill, no worse for the wear and tear. As it turns out, he had been invited to a party but told them he’d have to take a rain check because his dad was making a special meal for him!

Monday – Christmas Eve! While Leslie was baking a boatload of cookies, the boys and I decided to take the Fish Bay/Beach hike/rock scramble to the Reef Bay Trail up to see the petroglyphs. We had been at that beach a little earlier to check on snorkeling conditions, only to find surfers there (so you can guess how suitable it was for snorkeling!). At that time we gave directions to a group that was looking to do that same hike. We ran into them at the bottom of the Reef Bay Trail and they said that the muddy trail has dissuaded them from hiking the spur to the petroglyphs. We found it to be muddy as described, but not to the point where we couldn’t or didn’t want to continue. All of the rain we’d been experiencing gave us, in addition to some mud to deal with, a waterfall at the end of our trail!

We hung out for a while, and even found a path we could scramble up to another waterfall, probably 100 feet above the main one. As we were heading back to from whence we came, we heard thunder rumbling ominously in the distance. About the time we got back to the junction of the Reef Bay and Lameshure trails, heavy rain drops began to pound the overhead canopy of leaves. By the time we made it back out of the forest and on to the beach we were in the middle of a full blown squall!

I really wasn’t too crazy about walking along the beach, out in the open, while keeping an eye out for lightning bolts, but the only other option was to duck under the nearby trees, which didn’t seem like a great idea either. So we just continued back towards Fish Bay, figuring every step got us a little closer to the comfort of the car. We made it back safely, if not a bit wet, and with a good story to tell!

Christmas Eve has, as our family has "matured", evolved to fit the current circumstances, but this year’s was a leap forward (?) in that regard. No driving around to see light displays, no sitting in a room around the glow of a fully decorated tree surrounded by presents. No, things were very different this year. But we were all here together! And though hot chocolate and egg nog may have been conspicuous by their absence, there was rum! And there were new family traditions born, sort of anyway. We played an old favorite board game of ours, Liar’s Dice, then the boys taught us a drinking game that they had learned in college, at which of course they kicked our tails!

Did I mention rum? So off to bed with visions of (from?) sugarcanes dancing on our heads….

Christmas arrived with not a bang, nor a whimper, but rather… a crowing! Or, more accurately, a lot of crowing. You see, there are a lot of wild chickens that roam this island, many of them roosters. And contrary to popular belief, they don’t necessarily wait until dawn to crow. And when one of them crows, there always seems to be at least one more that feels compelled to answer. But so it goes. And a Merry Cock-a- Doodle-Do Christmas to you!

By decree, and also aided somewhat by practicality, there were to be no presents exchanged this year. After all, what more could we give to each other than the gift of moving to St. John? We did get a couple of small gifts for Shane and Jason, but didn’t even wrap those. Christmas was now a blank canvas which we were free to make whatever we wanted it to be. So, what would we do? How about…going snorkeling (except for Shane, who learned more of the meaning of living in a tourist destination, since he had to work) ??? Or even better, hiking to a place to snorkel! Off we went to downtown Cruz Bay, parked behind the National Park visitor’s center, and set off down the Lind Point Trail, our destination – Salomon Bay!

This past December may very well go down as the wettest in history, or so we’re told. I do know that it rained a lot, and the infamous “Christmas winds” had also arrived! We expected the trail to be muddy and slippery, and in some places, just plain wet – and we weren’t disappointed. But I don’t think any of us expected the conditions we’d find at trail’s end, when we popped out of the woods and on to the beach. It was sunny and calm, the sand white, the water a clear turquoise – a picture perfect Caribbean beach scene. And we took full advantage!
We snorkeled the length of Salomon Bay, the point between it and Honeymoon, then another bay, and another, and another! Before we knew it we were a lot further east than we’d been when we got in the water! But it was a gorgeous day, so retracing our swim was no problem. Once we got out, and had finished the hike back to town we realized that we were starving! There was nothing open in Mongoose Junction, which was the closest place to where we were, but we were happy that when we stopped at the Lumberyard complex, just up the road, that Driftwood David’s was open! As always, we were greeted warmly by David and by Nikki, and the sandwiches and drinks hit the spot!


Back home we all got cleaned up, took care of Champ, and while the others napped, watched TV, and generally hung out, I got to the task of preparing Christmas dinner. That’s always one of the things I like best about the big day, and the standing rib roast I had scored at Starfish Market a couple of days earlier would ensure that I wouldn’t be forced to make massive changes to the menu. After the feast we topped it off with Leslie’s cookies then lapsed into a food coma!

I did catch Leslie looking a little bit sad a time or two. I hadn’t given her the one present she had asked for – adopting Patches, the dog that she had part-time fostered (and fell in love with) during the time that she was down here without any other family members.  We had had her over for sleepovers a few times, including once this past week, but I wasn’t sure if adding her to our family permanently would really work very well for us.

Soon, all too soon, we had another reason to be sad. All of a sudden it was Thursday, December 26 – the day Jason was to fly back to Florida. It had been a whirlwind nine days, and now, as we were preparing to take him to the airport on St. Thomas to leave, it struck me just how much it meant to have had him around. Sure, we had grown used to him being away, and Leslie’s “momma sense” kept her in tune with how much she missed him, but until I spent these last few days with him – often not even doing anything more than just being in the same room, I didn’t realize how much I did. But it was sure making itself clear now.

We made it across Pillsbury Sound on the car barge and across St. Thomas to the airport without incident. We dropped him off outside the departure gates, hugged him goodbye and watched as our little boy – make that young man, disappeared into the terminal. And with that, our wonderful Christmas week came to an end. He was moving on to follow his dreams and we had a car barge to catch back to ours.

Saturday, January 11, 2014

There and Back Again - NOT a Hobbit's Tale!



I can’t believe that it’s been nearly a month and a half since the last blog entry – time does fly…..

Over the next few days I will try and get us somewhat caught up. Here’s a beginning, we’ll see how it goes!

In mid-December Leslie and I took a trip back to Florida - my first since moving here, and her first since she had gone back to retrieve Shane and Champ. It isn’t like we had rock fever or extreme home sickness, we were going back to attend Jason’s graduation commencement ceremony, which was in Gainesville on Saturday, December 14.

Shane stayed behind to work and take care of Champ. He probably didn’t mind the week of autonomy too much either! Also, it would be his first experience of doing any extended driving on the island (which, truth be told made us a little nervous since we are a one jeep family).

Champ hates suitcases. Or at least he hates seeing us pack suitcases, and I don’t blame him. Here he was, finally getting used to and settled into this new environment and we were leaving him! The full days that Shane works would be the longest that Champ had been left alone since his move, so we worried a bit about that/him. 

The ferry/taxi/plane/layover/plane seemed long, but was pleasantly uneventful. We picked up a rental car at the airport in Tampa a little before 4:00PM, and headed east. It was the first time in two months that I done any of the following; drove on the right side of the road, drove for more than 100 feet in a straight line, or drove over 30mph!

Our first stop was at Eau Gallie High School. The fact that the boys soccer team had a home game that night had an awful lot to do with the fact that Melbourne was even on our itinerary. We arrived shortly before the JV game began and were greeted warmly by Roxanne, who I believe was the only one on site that knew we were coming. We had a great time surprising our friends that were in attendance, getting caught up, and the teams even cooperated as EG won both matches.

After the game we headed to our friends Terri and Jerry’s house, as they had graciously offered us a place to stay for the duration of the Melbourne portion of our trip. A little talk, a little wine, then it was time for some sleep.

I spent most of Wednesday doing some work  on the computer while Leslie shopped for a few of the things that we had identified as needs that we would have trouble finding (or paying for!) on island. Fortunately I was able to get to a point in my project that we could join some dear friends at our favorite Melbourne riverside restaurant, Captain Katanna’s!  It was really great to see all of them, I just wish that I had been able to spend a little more time with each of them. Terri invited all who were interested in extending the evening to come back to their place for more food, drinks, and fun. The spread she put out made me wonder why we’d bothered to eat dinner!

Thursday morning we had breakfast, did a couple of quick things on the computer, then headed north. We would end our day in Tallahassee at my brother Bruce’s house, but we had convinced Jason to take a break from studying for finals long enough to let us buy him lunch, so we made a stop in Gainesville. We picked him up by his apartment, and went to Ballyhoo’s, which had become our “go-to” spot whenever we visited either or both of the boys up there.  

 During lunch I mentioned that on Saturday, when we’d be back for the commencement ceremony, that we would likely just meet up with him afterwards since we’d need to get seated before the procession of candidates started at 9:30. He commented that it seemed like an awful early time for us to get there for a 2:00PM event.  A couple of weeks prior I had sent him a message asking him to find out the details for me, which he had somehow managed to forget to do. So I went online and got the information myself. Now he was telling me that I had it all wrong. I hoped he was right – an afternoon ceremony would allow us to leave Tallahassee at a much more reasonable hour, but I suggested that he verify it before we finished lunch. After checking on his phone he said, “how about that? – my ceremony is at 10:00AM after all – I better go and get my cap and gown”!

We made it to a chilly(ish) Tallahassee by late afternoon – it felt good to get out of the car! Temperatures were supposed to drop into the 30s that night – quite a change from St. John! I actually had a pair of jeans and socks with me – items that I had to dig out just for this trip.  Even though it stayed refreshingly crisp (according to me – it was mind and body numbingly cold according to Leslie) other than the two occasions where decorum mandated that I wear slacks, I stayed in shorts the whole time! I did however wear socks, shoes, and long sleeve t-shirts.

We spent Friday visiting with my Mom, who drove over from Panama City to join us, and helping out around the house – Sunday was to be the day of Bruce and Candace’s annual holiday open house, an event that we had never been able to make it to before.

Saturday dawned bright, clear, and crisp, and shortly before sunrise my Mom, Leslie, and myself got back in the car for the two and a half hour drive to Gainesville. We made good time, found a place to park literally just steps away from the O’Connell Center (where the event was being held) and we only had a short wait before they opened the doors and we were able to secure very good seats. 



THEN the wait began! There  were probably some 1500 conferees being honored during this particular session, so with the speeches, awards, etc. you can imagine that it went on for some time. It was entertaining to see how the parents/friends/loved ones of the graduates responded during their particular 10 seconds of excitement.


After the ceremony we met up with Jason and some of his friends across the street from the arena. Some of these kids had delayed their trips home for the break between semesters so that they could see him “walk” – how nice! We had met most of them before, either at our tailgates or at other events we’d attended during Jason’s time there, and it was good to see them again, possibly/probably for the last time.


A good friend of mine from my high school days has a daughter who graduated at the same time/place as Jason so after going by Jason’s apartment so he could pack(!) for the trip, we met Jeri, her daughter Kelli (the new grad), and some more of their family for a great celebratory meal at KC Craves – a new one for us! We had a great meal and a great time hanging out with them. Between the early start to the day and that giant late lunch, I was one sleepy driver by the time we got back to Tallahassee.

Sunday morning was a flurry of last minute activity ahead of the open house – which was wonderful! Great food, met a bunch of their friends for the first time as well as getting caught up with some of the ones we’d met over the years. After everyone had gone home and the initial clean up had been taken care of, we headed to an Irish Pub (a pub in Ireland had been completely disassembled, shipped to the states and recreated in this space) for a couple of hours.

Monday morning we said our good-byes and the three of us (Leslie, Jason, and me) headed back to Tampa. We had a 7:00AM flight out on Tuesday so we opted to stay in the airport hotel in Tampa, which was a choice with which we were very happy.  After checking in I went and topped off the gas tank, returned the rental car, walked back to the room, and from that point on we had everything we needed right there.

Suddenly it was Tuesday morning. It was hard to believe that it had been a week since we’d boarded a plane going in the opposite direction.  Boarded and flew to Miami without incident, and the layover there was spent much as the previous one had been. Then we got on a plane bound for – home!

This was a new experience. Not flying to St. Thomas – I have done that a number of times. Not even flying to St. Thomas when it’s not for a vacation, I’d done that in October. This was my first time flying BACK there, as a resident, after visiting “the real world”, and I was curious as to how that would feel.

Would the short stay in the land of long hot showers, abundant food options, and convenient (and cheap) shopping make me miss all of that upon my return? Would the teasingly short two day stay in the place that had been my home for decades fill me with homesickness? Would the brief respite from humidity leave me dreading coming back to that?

No, no, and no. I was truly happy to be coming home. This is where I live now, and it’s where I hope to be able to continue to live. I really loved seeing some of my family members and some of my friends back in Florida. I do miss them, but I hope I can convince them to come and see us!

The plane landed on a rainy St. Thomas. The THREE of us deplaned, and had a welcome to the Vis complimentary rum shot while we waited for our bags. Three of the four showed up almost before we could get to the claim area. The fourth one helped us get back on island time! Once we had it, we grabbed a van, then once again waited. The driver was determined to fill it up before he’d leave. The time we had to wait until he squeezed that last couple in was going to, I was sure, cause us to miss the 3:00PM ferry. But we pulled in 2:59 and while Jason and I waited to get our bags, Leslie ran into the terminal to get our tickets. And we made it! The text message  to Shane to tell him we missed it remained unsent.

Shane met us with the Jeep next to the ferry dock in Cruz Bay. We piled all of the luggage in the back, put Leslie in front, and told them to come and pick us up by the free parking lot once they’d dropped everything off. As Jason and I walked in that direction I was so glad to be home, and to have him here with us for the next 10 days or so. For a little while we were all going to be back together again. Shortly after we got to the parking lot I could see the jeep in the distance as it rounded the corner by The Marketplace. And who do you suppose Leslie had brought with her to greet his original owner/best friend? Champ, of course! What a reunion! And what a week we all have ahead of us. Stay tuned…